Here’s what’s good for me today. What’s good for you?

I like weather in the 60s. Even cloudy days. It seems like the zinnia colors pop even more on days like this.

I like our front garden. Yesterday I let a bumble bee land on my knee. I’m a little bit scared of bees (PTSD from stepping on wasps nest as a child!), so this was a big deal. Sitting in our pollinator garden is helping me develop a better relationship with these amazing little critters.

Also monarchs. So many monarchs. I love this.

The amazing and beautiful Sarah made a beautiful and amazing mask storage bag for us, organized by height! Now our masks (3 sizes, all made by Sarah) are easily accessible when we leave the house.💜 I mean, it also doubles as a nesting place for stuffies, so that’s magical in its own right. 😊

I love that we’ve been able to keep the bunnies and squirrels fed all summer (peas, cucumbers, tomatoes, squash, and beans). It’s fun having a nature preserve in the front yard.

And yet… I am equally glad that they’ve so far overlooked a couple squashes and one pumpkin. I hope they keep ignoring them!

I also really love learning more about our brains and nervous systems and the things we can do to change our lives even when there’s a lot about our lives that we can’t change…And then organizing and editing that information into fun, interactive classes! 😊

(HINT: My next series, Rewire Your Brain – Grow Your Happiness Practices for Greater Resilience, starts October 15th!)

A little Friday Fun!

In case you want a little break from 2020’s, well, 2020-ness. 😊

Oh, and in case you want more tools to help you work with what life is throwing at us right now, October’s 5-week series, Rewire Your Brain – Grow Your Happiness Practices for Greater Resilience, is filled with tools you can use to increase your well-being and resilience. Classes start October 17th!

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More early September fun

I appreciate mornings with Ida, who is an excellent stylist, makeup artist, and photographer. She fills my heart with joy (and my face with paint).

I appreciate our family puzzle project – both the doing (putting it together all black and white lines!), the improving (adding color), and even more, the putting it away so we can have our table back! 😉

The ever-changing menagerie of our windowsill

One of the really fun things about recording appreciations over for a long time is going back to revisit them. Today I came across an appreciation for our windowsill menagerie from 2017. It still makes me smile today!

Windowsill menagerie August, 2017
Windowsill menagerie August, 2020

The players have changed, but the game still remains!

If you want help getting into your own appreciation practice (oh, and want to meet some cool new people and have some fun!), join us for our Rewire Your Brain — Appreciation Practices for Challenging Times class on Tuesday, August 25th. It’s the last time I’ll be offering this class for awhile, so be sure to register if you’ve been meaning to check it out!

REGISTER HERE

Beautiful things

What is beautiful in your day so far?

For me it is listening to the red squirrels chittering outside, watching monarchs dance around our baby oak tree, spotting an Eastern Tiger Swallowtails in our garden, and watching Sarah & Ida dance their way into the room. 💚

Plus coffee. 😆

Learn how you can get the most wonder from your days (even when they are less than wonderful). Join us tomorrow for Rewire Your Brain: Appreciation Practices for Challenging Time!

https://bit.ly/AppreciationPracticesAUG19

I appreciate…my upcoming classes!

Due to popular demand, I am offering two more sessions of Rewire Your Brain: Appreciation Practices for Challenging Times. I’m adding several new tools and a little more time for these classes. Even if you’ve attended this class before, feel free to join us again. It’s gonna be fun!

Appreciation Practices for Challenging Times – AUG 19

6:30 – 8:00 PM CT
Suggested donation $25 – OR pay what you like after the class! 
To get class link register here: bit.ly/AppreciationPracticesAUG19

Appreciation Practices for Challenging Times – AUG 25

6:30 – 8:00 PM CT
Suggested donation $25 – OR pay what you like after the class! 
To get class link register here: bit.ly/AppreciationPracticesAUG25

Rewire Your Brain – Grow Your Happiness Practices for Greater Resilience

5 Thursdays, September 17 to October 15, 2020
6:30 – 8:00 PM CT
Cost: $150, sliding scale available!
Register here: bit.ly/ResilienceToolsSEP17

As our days get shorter and we head into winter, we need our positive brains more than ever! This series includes five 90-minute classes that will teach you how to use your innate strengths, personality, and preferences to create lasting habits that support a happier brain.

Your happier brain contributes to better relationships, increased creativity, and even a stronger immune system. Join us for fun interactive classes that increase your well-being and resilience — and create community!

Topics

Week One – Your Amazing Brain! 
Brain chemistry basics
Appreciation and soothing

Week Two – Laugh & Play
Laughter yoga
Creativity and play

Week Three – Connection & Kindness
Social connections
Value of kindness

Week Four – Beyond the Brain
Signature strengths
Nervous system tips & tricks

Week Five – The Kitchen Sink
Cultivating your unique happiness practices

Space in Thursday’s fun class AND Screens for Happiness

SPOTS STILL OPEN FOR TOMORROW’S CLASS
There are still spots open for tomorrow’s Rewire Your Brain class! Saturday’s class was excellent. Lots of laughs and lots of learning. I even got a new gratitude buddy out of it! Details about the class are below. Or you can take the leap (there’s no actual risk. 😉 Suggested donation is $25, but everyone is welcome!) and register HERE.

SCREENS FOR HAPPINESS
In other news, I was re-listening to one of my favorite podcasts, The Happiness Lab this week and came across an episode I’d missed. Score! This episode, Good Screens and Bad Screens, offered an interesting idea (beyond “limit your screen time”) for improving our relationship with screens — which given our need for screens right now seems like a great plan.

Here’s the idea: think of categorizing your screen time as different food groups in a screen time “diet.” There’s “healthy food” screen time — like connecting with loved ones through video chat or watching a show that lifts our spirits. And there’s “junk food” screen time that drains us. (For me, it’s scrolling through countless news articles or repeatedly checking my email).

I so appreciate this novel way of looking at my screen life! Now when I spend time on a screen, I take a minute to think about whether it is nourishing or depleting me. It’s already made a big difference in my sense of well-being. Thanks, cool podcast!

I know the screen time I spend doing tomorrow’s class will fill me up with all sorts of good feelings. It is definitely on MY “healthy foods” screen time list. I hope you’ll join us and get the same kinds of rewards!

However you spend your screen time this week, I hope it nourishes and energizes you!

REWIRE YOUR BRAIN
Appreciation Practices for Challenging Times

Date: Thursday, July 23
Time: 7:00-8:00 pm CDT
Location: Online everywhere
Suggested donation: $25 – OR pay what you like after the class! ️❤️

One of those weeks

It’s been one of “those” weeks. Health issues, administrative snags, missing my sister Jeni (who died in 2018), and a bunch of little (and not so little) irritations showed up on my doorstep. I indulged in the requisite wailing and gnashing of teeth. 

And I got to appreciate my appreciation muscles for the joy they afforded me.

This week I wanted to honor my sister. I have some of her art hanging up and it makes me feel connected to her. I used one of her paintings as inspiration for my creation. I painted and cried and smiled and felt her all around me. I am lucky she was and is my sister. I love looking at her art (and now mine) hanging in my living room as a testament to that love.

My watercolor (left) & Jeni’s acrylic (right)

I’m excited to share the tools that helped me train my brain to help me find joy even during challenging times. This Saturday I’m offering my first online version of Happiness in Hard Times – the Art of Appreciating (along with a laughter yoga mini-session).

It is gonna be so much fun! If you want to try out some science-based techniques that we can use to improve our lives, health, and relationships — even during a pandemic — use the link below to register. 

I look forward to seeing you!

REGISTER FOR CLASS!

I accidentally rediscovered the power of laughter 😆

This morning I accidentally rediscovered the power of laughter. 

In my classes and talks, I teach people the power of laughter, appreciation, and a host of other science-based habits that can significantly improve our health and well-being.

And…I sometimes forget to use the tools I teach. Especially when I’m tired and/or health issues are flaring. 

It’s been a rough couple weeks for a variety of reasons (beyond the ones we are all facing right now). This morning when my bestie-roomie Sarah & I checked in, we realized that anxiety and depression have been running the show around here lately. So we sat on the couch, leaned our heads together, and held space for how things are.

After a few minutes, because humor is my go-to tool, I said, “Well, we could do some laughter yoga. We would both hate that right now!” And we laughed because it was true. 

But then…Ida (Sarah’s 5 year-old) stepped in and changed the game. She overheard me and ran over to us with a big grin on her face. “Laughter yoga?!?” she beamed. “Let’s do laughter yoga!”

And so, even though it really was the last thing either Sarah or I wanted to do, we did laughter yoga.

We only did it for about 10 minutes. Ida loved it. We loved watching Ida love it. And then, um, well, we felt a little better.

Oh, right. Just like I tell people.

And based on that little boost from our mini-session this morning, I decided to add a 10-minute session before each of my upcoming classes!

So if you want to try a little laughter (do it!), join your class 10 minutes early. I’ll be there, laughing and remembering that we are in this together.

Love,
Diana

JULY CLASSES

Happiness in Hard Times
The Art of Appreciating

Date: Tuesday, July 14
Time: 7:00-8:00 pm
Laughter Yoga mini-session: 6:50 pm
Location: Online everywhere
Suggested donation: $25

                OR

Date: Saturday, July 18
Time: 2:00-3:00 pm
Laughter Yoga mini-session: 1:50 pm
Location: Online everywhere
Suggested donation: $25