The past couple months have been pretty rough.
I knew this holiday season was going to be hard since it was the first one without my dad. What I didn’t know was how much COVID was going to kick my ass — physically and mentally. And, of course, I didn’t foresee my mom being hospitalized from Dec 21-26th for lung complications and breathing problems related to her COVID.
Oooof.
Most of my COVID symptoms resolved or improved after the expected 10 days. But some of the other effects that came on in the following weeks really took me by surprise.
When I came out of isolation, I kept saying that I felt like COVID had somehow broken me. I didn’t feel like myself anymore. I experienced debilitating depression and anxiety, and a month of intense insomnia (4-hour nights 3-4x/week).
After weeks of trying to understand why I couldn’t find any joy or humor (so unlike me — even during my darkest days), why I didn’t want to connect with my friends, didn’t want (or remember) to eat, and couldn’t concentrate…a good friend threw me a lifeline in the form of this podcast recommendation:
The Surprising Link Between COVID and Depression
This information was so helpful. Having an explanation for what I was experiencing was incredibly relieving.
Here’s what I learned.
Around 50% of folks who get COVID will have a depressive or anxious period in the 3 months following the infection. COVID can interfere with our ability to absorb and utilize tryptophan — which is an amino acid that our bodies use to help make melatonin and serotonin.
Melatonin is a hormone that helps with sleep (which explains my intense insomnia).
Serotonin is a neurotransmitter that’s involved in nearly every part of the brain, and is thought to affect a wide variety of things including sleep, appetite, mood, learning and memory, and happiness.
Having an explanation and name for what was happening has helped me so much. I’m continuing to work with my therapist and docs to manage the depression and I now feel hopeful some of the time, which is a huge relief.
And… I realize how fortunate I am that this is a short-lived event for me. I have so much compassion for folks for whom this is an ongoing experience. I am sending out love and deep caring to all of you who are going through a rough time and/or struggle with mental illness. You matter.
Here are a few places that can help if you need support for depression and/or anxiety.
National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
Anxiety and Depression Association of America
PS – I’m happy to report that although we’re still figuring out the cause of and treatment for my mom’s reduced lung capacity, she is doing better, as well.